Relations Among Anxious Solitude, Peer Exclusion, and Maternal Overcontrol from 3rd Through 7th Grade: Peer Effects on Youth, Youth Evocative Effects on Mothering, and the Indirect Effect of Peers on Mothering via Youth

Theory of Mind, Self-Perceptions, and Peer Popularity in Middle Childhood and Early Adolescence

Background/Objectives: Peer popularity is often associated with children's and adolescents' Theory of Mind (ToM), as well as with self-perceptions. This paper describes two cross-sectional studies that investigate the individual differences and associations among peer popularity, ToM, and self-perceptions (i.e., several dimensions of self-esteem, including global, academic, or physical self-esteem). Methods: Study 1 involved 229 German children aged 5 to 8 years. Study 2 involved 127 Canadian adolescents aged 10 to 12 years. Participants in both studies completed measures of ToM, self-perceptions, and peer popularity. Results: Study 1 found significant associations among children's ToM and self-perceptions (their global self-esteem) but found no associations with children's peer popularity. Study 2 revealed significant positive associations between adolescents' ToM and their peer popularity, as well as between ToM and self-perceptions (in particular, adolescents' academic self-esteem). Conclusions: Our findings support the view that ToM matters for children's and young adolescents' self-perceptions and plays an increasingly important role in their everyday social life. Curricular implications for ToM, identity formation (self-perceptions), and peer relations are discussed.

Anxious Solitude, Reciprocated Friendships with Peers, and Maternal Overcontrol from Third through Seventh Grade: A Transactional Model

Guided by a Transactional Model of anxious solitude development, we tested friend and maternal influences on continuity and change in youth anxious solitude from 3rd through 7th grade, as well as the influence of youth anxious solitude on decreased friendship participation and increased maternal overcontrol over time. Participants were 230 American youth (57% girls) selected for longitudinal study from a public-school screening sample (n = 688). Peers reported on anxious solitude, both peers and youth reported on reciprocated friendship, and youth reported on their mother’s overcontrol annually. Stability and incremental change in youth, friend, and maternal factors were tested in an autoregressive cross-lagged panel analytic model. Having few mutual friendships predicted incremental increase in youth anxious solitude in mid-elementary school, then youth anxious solitude predicted the loss of friendships after the middle school transition. Additionally, youth anxious solitude in third grade evoked increased maternal overcontrol in fourth grade, but the reverse direction of effect was not supported. Youth’s participation in few friendships also evoked mothers’ overcontrol, which exacerbated their child’s loss of friendships in elementary school. Taken together, having few mutual friends contributed to youth anxious solitude and maternal overcontrol, and subsequently these factors further exacerbated youth’s loss of friendships.