Abstract thinking: trauma and the mind-body connection

Bodies as means for continuing post-death relationships

Secondary analysis of data from 30 people in three interview studies shows that bereaved people use their own and the deceased’s body in their continuing efforts to maintain a relationship with the departed. Following the continuing bond perspective, the study reveals three body-associated strategies for maintaining post-death relationships: (a) the presence of the deceased in the bereaved’s body, (b) body-associated actions and activities, and (c) sensing and caring for the deceased’s body. The conceptual dimension of embodiment is used to interpret results. Attention is also given to the bereaved’s sense of disembodiment due to social rejection of these strategies for maintaining post-death relationships. Implications for health psychologists are offered.